My long legs

April 2, 2009

I know comparisons are odious but what happened to me? Look at my slender body and glorious long legs. Now, I make Tina look small. Sigh. The vet said I needed to lose 15 percent of my body weight. Thanks, pal. I thought you said you loved cats.Write about something mean somebody said to you–about […]

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Don’t Leave Home Without Us

April 1, 2009

Every day this month I’m going to post about cats–which means I’ll be tackling some pretty deep subjects. My cats (that’s Lucy in front, Tina behind) always sniff around and settle into my suitcase when I get it out to pack. Do they want to go with me? Are they trying to say: “Don’t go?” […]

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Three Things About Yesterday

March 31, 2009

At yoga, my smart teacher Christina said, “Tension masks sensation.” She was talking about tension within the body, of course. I thought about writing too. If we’re tense we can’t relax into writing from our senses–from those places deep within us, the well, from where we experience the world. We’re shut off if we’re uptight. […]

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Dialogues with the truth

March 28, 2009

At a workshop tonight we wrote dialogues with an aspect of self–or I said before starting–“you might want to have a conversation with a book project or something you’re working on or with a body part that’s bothering you.” I told them about a dialogue I’d had with my tongue. Me, to my tongue: Why […]

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Scout’s Pace

March 16, 2009

Nothing like travel to break up routines. I so admire those people who write and exercise no matter where they are–or how disoriented or bad the hangover. I try, in hotels, to use the gym. But I forget my headphones and can’t bear the boredom or I go, but only for one day of a […]

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The Daily Grind

March 12, 2009

At a meeting with a friend this morning, I mentioned the book I’ve been working on. “Which book?” she asked. “You know,” I said, “the one about the mothers and writing.” “Oh, that,” she said, “I thought you finished it last summer.” “No, I finished a draft that week in August when I went away […]

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Ash Wednesday Musing

February 25, 2009

I am not religious but I met yesterday with a woman who decided that for Lent this year–instead of giving up something like chocolate or trashy novels–she was going to write every day. Rather than give up something, deprivation, she was going to add something, enhance her life. Forget the hair shirt, go for the […]

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Things I’ve Been Silent About

February 19, 2009

Things I’ve Been Silent About: this is a prompt I’ve given in three recent workshops and it’s also the title of a new memoir by Azar Nafisi One thing I’ve been silent about is that I’m not doing my own writing. I have been silent about this. I am so busy advising others: “Get to […]

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Writing in Real Time, February 2, 2009

February 2, 2009

Some of my clients arrive with writing they want to read aloud and discuss; with others we work on edited print-outs. Some show up sheepish. “I didn’t get that rewrite done,” or “I told myself I’d get to the desk but somehow couldn’t this week.” Some show up wanting to write here. I give them […]

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Nerd in High School, January 31, 2009

January 31, 2009

from Long Quiet Highway: Waking Up in America, by Natalie Goldberg “You know, I was a nerd in high school,” I said. I paused. “Do they use the word ‘nerd’ now?” They nodded. “I didn’t know I’d be a writer. I was just bored.” Then I told them about Mr. Clemente, my high school English […]

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